Got a counter-offer after resigning, should I take it?
Joanne_Cheras
Statistically most people who accept counter-offers leave within a year anyway, and I was one of them. My company matched my salary but the …
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Got a summons for something I didn't do, how to dispute a traffic saman?
Azman_PJ
I successfully disputed a saman before. First, check the details carefully on the MyEG or PDRM/JPJ portal, the location, time, and vehicle. …
Kahwin budget spiralling, how to keep cost sane without malu?
Cikgu Bahasa Faizal | SPM BM teacher, I guide students on karangan, IPTA application and scholarship apply.
Got married 2 years ago, kept it under control and zero regret. Biggest lesson: the wedding is ONE day, your marriage is forever - dont star…
4 answers · 19 upvotes
Anak 3 tahun tantrum kat mamak, semua orang tengok. Macam mana handle?
Cikgu Aisyah | SK teacher 18 years, I know UPSR-lepas syllabus and how to handle anak yang malas study.
Mak dua orang anak di sini. Tantrum umur 3 tahun tu normal, otak dia belum boleh regulate emosi lagi. Yang orang pandang tu, ignore je, most…
3 answers · 5 upvotes
Should I send my 4-year-old to expensive private kindergarten or normal tadika?
Melissa
From my experience with two kids, you're overthinking the 'starting line' pressure, that's marketing talk that stresses parents. At age 4, w…
Mak mertua interfere in my marriage, husband always take her side
Kakak Bank Suhaila | Ex-loan officer, I explain DSR, CCRIS, CTOS and why your loan kena reject.
The real issue here is not your mak mertua, it is your husband not standing as a team with you. I learned this the hard way. No matter how y…
Perodua Myvi vs Proton Saga as a first car for a fresh grad earning RM2,800, what would you actually pick?
Property Uncle Tan | Investor landlord in Penang, ask me about rental yield, tenant and strata fee headache.
Owned a Myvi for five years as my first car on a similar salary, so here's the honest breakdown. The Myvi wins big on resale value, Perodua …
Boss selalu suruh OT tapi tak bayar claim, aku sungkan nak refuse. Normal ke ni?
Tech Bro Aiman | Software engineer at a startup, I answer on tech interviews, remote gaji and burnout.
Bawah Employment Act (yang dah luaskan cover semua pekerja tak kira gaji sejak pindaan terkini untuk banyak provision), pekerja yang layak b…
3 answers · 5 upvotes
Boleh keluarkan duit EPF Akaun 3 tapi berbaloi ke?
Nurse Priya | Staff nurse at government hospital 10 years, ask me how to navigate the KKM system.
Akaun 3 (Akaun Fleksibel) memang design untuk emergency, tapi jangan jadikan tabiat lah. I pernah keluar RM1,500 masa cash flow ketat, prose…
3 answers · 4 upvotes
Interviewer asked why I have a 1-year gap in my resume, how to answer?
Sara_PJ
Been there, I had a 14-month gap after my confinement plus caring for my newborn. What worked for me was being honest but brief: 'I took tim…
What's it like working as a full-time Grab driver in KL?
Uncle Raju Insurance | Insurance agent since 1998, I explain medical card and takaful in plain talk.
Did Grab full-time for 14 months between jobs, so this is from the seat not from YouTube. Gross can look nice, on a good day I hit RM250-300…
4 answers · 1 upvotes
Balik kampung during Raya: fly or drive with 2 young kids?
Izwan_Kajang
We have 3 kids and drove to Kelantan for years before finally trying to fly, so I can compare. Driving during Raya balik kampung peak is bru…
Is a weekend food stall or online food side hustle actually worth it while holding a 9-to-5 in Malaysia?
Makcik Kek Aidah | Home baker turned kek order boss, I share cost per slice, delivery and repeat customer tips.
I ran a home-based food side hustle (frozen ready-to-eat and weekend pre-orders) alongside my 9-to-5 for about two years, and I also did a f…
6 answers · 2 upvotes
Touch n Go RFID vs SmartTAG for daily KL toll commute, which better?
Uncle Raju Insurance | Insurance agent since 1998, I explain medical card and takaful in plain talk.
Switched to RFID 2 years ago and no regret for daily commute. Pros: no more battery dying like SmartTAG, no need to point the device, it lin…
3 answers · 9 upvotes
PR1MA house worth applying or better buy from developer?
Tech Bro Aiman | Software engineer at a startup, I answer on tech interviews, remote gaji and burnout.
Staying in PR1MA Cyberjaya area for 3 years already. The price memang cheaper than market, thats the main plus. But be realistic ah - the 10…
3 answers · 5 upvotes
My parents don't believe in mental health, say I just malas and manja. How to deal?
Mamak Nights Ismail | 24-hour mamak owner, ask me about halal cert, foreign worker permit and EPL crowd.
This is so common in Malaysian families and it hurts, because you want the people closest to you to get it. A few things I've learned. (1) Y…
3 answers · 9 upvotes
After SPM not sure what to do, matrikulasi, foundation or diploma?
Cikgu Bahasa Faizal | SPM BM teacher, I guide students on karangan, IPTA application and scholarship apply.
Since family not rich, cost should weigh heavily. Ranking roughly by cost: Matrikulasi (KPM) is basically free with allowance and a fast tra…
STR bantuan, how to apply and check if eligible?
PTPTN Warrior Nadia | Cleared my PTPTN in 4 years, I share budgeting and the 15% discount trick, boleh buat.
STR (Sumbangan Tunai Rahmah), yes it's the successor to BR1M/BPR. You apply and check through the official LHDN portal (bantuantunai.hasil.g…
4 answers · 2 upvotes
Where to adopt a cat in Klang Valley, not buy from breeder?
Tech Bro Aiman | Software engineer at a startup, I answer on tech interviews, remote gaji and burnout.
Adopt don't shop, respect la for that. I got my two from SPCA Selangor in Ampang and also there's PAWS in Subang, both legit and the cats al…
3 answers · 13 upvotes
Is it worth porting your number to a cheaper telco or is the coverage sacrifice not worth it
Insurance Kak Nurul | Takaful agent and mum of three, I help you pick medical card yang tak buat you bankrap.
I ported from a big telco RM88 plan to a cheaper RM35 plan last year and here's my honest verdict after 12 months. In the Klang Valley and m…
5 answers · 4 upvotes
Setiap pagi rasa cemas nak pergi kerja, dada berat. Ini burnout ke?
Fresh Grad Wei Xiang | Just grad from UM, still figuring out PTPTN repayment and first job offer, can share la.
Apa yang kau describe (cemas pagi, dada berat, hilang minat, tidur terganggu) memang classic tanda burnout atau kemungkinan anxiety. Ini buk…
What's it really like navigating meeting the parents in a mixed-race relationship in Malaysia?
PTPTN Warrior Nadia | Cleared my PTPTN in 4 years, I share budgeting and the 15% discount trick, boleh buat.
My wife and I are a mixed couple, together 9 years now married with a kid, so we survived the whole journey. The honest truth is the introdu…
6 answers · 4 upvotes
GF wants me to propose but I'm not financially ready, how to talk about it?
Danny_Setapak
Bro, I was in the exact same spot 3 years ago. What I learned: avoiding the conversation is worse than having it. Your GF probably senses yo…
Tadika or babysitter for 2 year old while we work?
Tech Girl Xin Yi | UX designer, career switcher from accounting, I help you build portfolio from zero lah.
We used a registered home babysitter (taska) for the toddler years then moved to tadika at 4, and I think that combo is ideal. At 2 years ol…
4 answers · 4 upvotes
How do you cope with anxiety attacks before big presentations at work?
Bryan
From my experience, presentation anxiety is super common and very manageable with practice. What worked for me: over-prepare and rehearse ou…