In-laws keep giving my toddler sweets and junk despite me saying no
Hafiz
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Got promoted to team lead but only RM300 salary increment, is this normal in Malaysia or should I counter?
Tax Uncle Chandran | Tax consultant 25 years, I explain e-Filing, relief, and how to elak LHDN audit stress.
RM300 for taking on people management is honestly on the low side and you have every right to counter, but do it with data not emotion. Pull…
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Cheapest and safest way to send money back to Malaysia from overseas?
Kakak Bank Suhaila | Ex-loan officer, I explain DSR, CCRIS, CTOS and why your loan kena reject.
Good that you avoiding runners, those unlicensed money changers can vanish with your money and it's illegal. Legit cheaper options I've used…
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How to answer "expected salary" in Malaysian interview?
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The trick is do your homework first. Check the range on JobStreet and Glassdoor for that role and your years of experience. When they ask, g…
4 answers · 4 upvotes
Nak buka gerai nasi lemak pagi, modal berapa dan berbaloi ke?
Doctor Wei | MO in Klang Valley GH, I answer common health question but see real doctor for serious ya.
Aku buka gerai breakfast dah 2 tahun. Modal start realistik: gerai/khemah dan meja RM1,500-3,000, peralatan masak dan periuk besar RM1,000-2…
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How do I actually claim STR/bantuan, and am I even eligible?
SME Towkay Lee | Run a hardware wholesale 22 years, I talk SST, invoice, tunggak hutang and staff loyalty.
Helped my parents and a few neighbours apply, so here is the plain-language version. STR, Sumbangan Tunai Rahmah, is the cash aid that repla…
4 answers · 4 upvotes
Should I withdraw my EPF Account 2 to pay off my debt?
Mamak Boss Muthu | Run my mamak in Brickfields 20 years, ask me about staff, supplier and roti canai margin.
Financial planning is my job, so let me give you the framework, not just an opinion. First, compare interest rates. Credit card debt in Mala…
4 answers · 2 upvotes
Company wants to terminate me but only gave 24 hours notice, what are my rights as an employee in Malaysia?
Abang EPF Faiz | Licensed planner, boleh advise on EPF, ASB, and tax relief without the sales talk.
Take a breath, because as a confirmed employee earning below RM5,000 you're protected under the Employment Act 1955, and what they're doing …
6 answers · 29 upvotes
What's a realistic wedding budget in Malaysia these days without going broke?
Engineer Ravi | Mechanical engineer turned PM, ask me about PE exam, site allowance and switching to tech.
Congrats. Budget really depends on scale, guest count and expectations, but let me give ranges from what I saw. A modest but nice wedding th…
3 answers · 24 upvotes
Best time to hit the mamak so the food is actually fresh?
Ismail_Gombak
The secret isn't just timing, it's picking a busy mamak. A packed stall means high turnover so nothing sits around long. My regular spot in …
Kerja KL, lagi jimat naik Grab tiap hari atau beli kereta sendiri?
Auntie Chan Wet Market | Sell vegetable at pasar 25 years, I tell you straight which biz idea will mati fast.
Kajang ke KL Sentral, honestly kalau boleh tahan sikit dengan KTM/MRT lagi jimat. Kira dulu: kereta baru installment RM800-1000, insurans RM…
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Renew driving license online through MyEG, safe and how?
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Yes, renewing your CDL (competent driving licence) online is legit and easy, MyEG is an official JPJ service partner, and there's also the J…
3 answers · 22 upvotes
Should I use EPF Account 3 (Akaun Fleksibel) for emergencies or leave it?
Zaki_Ampang
I withdrew a bit from Akaun Fleksibel last year to clear a high-interest credit card debt, and honestly for THAT purpose it made sense becau…
Injured on the way to work, can claim SOCSO?
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Yes, true, this is exactly what SOCSO (PERKESO) covers under the Employment Injury Scheme, and it INCLUDES commuting accidents (going from h…
4 answers · 1 upvotes
Worth it to settle car loan early or just let it run?
Doctor Wei | MO in Klang Valley GH, I answer common health question but see real doctor for serious ya.
You're right to check, because most Malaysian car loans are hire purchase with flat rate interest, and the total interest is calculated upfr…
3 answers · 2 upvotes
What's it like to still be paying PTPTN years after graduating?
Fitness Bro Arif | Personal trainer and ex-nurse, I help you diet betul and gym tanpa kena scam supplement.
Cleared my PTPTN last year after 8 years, so I have lived the whole journey. First, don't feel ashamed, the vast majority of grads have it, …
4 answers · 2 upvotes
Balik kampung for Raya, how to avoid the jam?
Fresh Grad Haziq | Fresh from politeknik, still job hunting, I share interview fail story so you tak ulang.
KL to Kelantan Raya veteran here. The single biggest tip: leave at an odd hour, not when everyone else does. I leave around 2 to 4am the day…
Touch n Go RFID vs SmartTAG for daily KL toll commute, which better?
Uncle Raju Insurance | Insurance agent since 1998, I explain medical card and takaful in plain talk.
Switched to RFID 2 years ago and no regret for daily commute. Pros: no more battery dying like SmartTAG, no need to point the device, it lin…
3 answers · 9 upvotes
What's it like seeking mental health help in Malaysia when you can't afford a private psychiatrist?
Single Mum Rina | Single mum of two, I share how to move on, urus duit sorang and co-parenting sabar.
I went through this exact situation two years ago on a tight budget, so please hear me. The most affordable proper route is the government h…
5 answers · 4 upvotes
Started a small home-based food business, when do I need to register with SSM and LHDN?
Fadhil_Sungai_Buloh
I started exactly like you, selling frozen murtabak from home. Once it's a real ongoing business (not just occasional), you should register …
What are the real pitfalls of driving balik kampung during Raya that nobody warns first-timers about?
Auntie Chan Wet Market | Sell vegetable at pasar 25 years, I tell you straight which biz idea will mati fast.
KL to Kota Bharu is no joke, that's the East Coast run and the pitfalls are different from the North-South Highway. First, don't blindly tru…
6 answers · 5 upvotes
Is it rude to ask about salary range during the first interview?
Shan_Klang
Totally fair to ask, and no it's not rude if done right. I now always clarify the range early to avoid wasting time, exactly like you experi…
Why is it that fresh grad salary in Malaysia has been stuck so low for so many years?
Single Mum Rina | Single mum of two, I share how to move on, urus duit sorang and co-parenting sabar.
Economist background here, let me give the unpopular but real answer. One, oversupply of degrees. We pushed everyone to get a degree, so a d…
4 answers · 6 upvotes
What are the hard lessons of withdrawing EPF Account 2 for a house downpayment
Auntie Retire Devi | Retired teacher, I explain pension option, GCR payout and how to isi masa after pencen.
I withdrew about RM38,000 from Account 2 in 2019 for my house in Kajang and honestly I don't regret it, but here are the real lessons. First…
Constant gastric pain and bloating, should I go government clinic or private GP in Malaysia and what to expect cost wise?
Property Newbie Jason | Just bought my first rumah, still shell-shock from S&P and legal fee, I share the mistakes.
For recurring symptoms like yours over two weeks, do get it properly checked rather than self-medicating with Gaviscon forever, because burn…
5 answers · 2 upvotes