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Mak mertua interfere in my marriage, husband always take her side
If you all staying together under one roof, that is 90% of the problem. If financially possible, get your own place even if smaller and further. The distance does wonders, visits become pleasant instead of daily friction. My marriage improved overnight after we moved out. Absence makes the heart fonder, staying together makes everyone gila.
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