Work in Singapore worth it for the SGD or too tiring?

Commuted from JB to SG for years, so real talk. The money is genuinely life-changing because of the exchange rate, SGD earned and spent/saved in RM stretches far, you can afford a nice house and lifestyle in JB that a KL salary can't match. BUT the daily grind is brutal and people underestimate it: you wake at 4 to 5am to beat the causeway jam, reach home 8 to 9pm, and by the time you eat and shower you sleep, repeat. Years of that wears down your health, family time, and social life, it's a real trade-off, not free money. Who it works for: singles or those saving hard for a specific goal (house, capital), people who can get a motorbike lane or company transport, or those who eventually rent/stay in SG during the week. Who it doesn't: people with young kids they never see, or anyone whose body can't take the sleep deprivation. My honest advice: do it with a clear GOAL and a time limit (e.g. 5 years to build capital), not forever mindlessly. Also consider staying in SG partway to cut the commute. Calculate the SGD net after CPF and SG living cost, not just the gross.